There
were 8 children in the family, 4 girls and 4 boys.
Two of the girls entered the religious life and became nuns.
Grade school was in the French Woods one room school house, and it
was a two mile walk each way every day. In the winter the snows and drifts
made walking difficult and in the spring the muddy roads were a problem.
High school was in Long Eddy six miles away. His father drove him to
school on Monday mornings and he would stay with a family he knew well
until classes were over on Friday. Then it was the long walk home.
Eventually he got a bicycle and rode to and from school when the weather
and road conditions permitted. The last year of high school was in
Hancock, but there was a big problem just getting there because the
distance was about 10 miles. Eventually the family moved to Hancock so it
would be much easier for the children to get an education.
Graduation
was from the Hancock High School in 1926. College was not in the immediate
future because his father had some health problems, and the family needed
his help on the family farm. The family store was located at the foot of
Academy Street and he worked there for about a year.
For the next three years he worked at Iverson’s Garage, where he
held numerous positions. Battery person, maintenance supervisor, parts
department, service department and bookkeeping were some of his duties.
These jobs were in addition to the farm chores.
Religion
was a very big part of everyday living and his parents Charles M. and
Victoria Dirig led the way by praying regularly with the whole family four
times each day. Father Dirig was very emphatic when he told me, "The
Family that Prays Together, Stays Together." You lead by example.
His
father was elected as a trustee of St. Francis de Sales Church in French
Woods in the late 1800's and served until 1926. He was also was an
usher, and the contact person for the pastor. Father Dirig was
always following his father around and therefore had a lot of contact with
Father Carey who was the pastor of the church in French Woods at that
time. Father Carey always took the time to notice him. I was amazed to
find out that at the age of three, Father Dirig knew he wanted to become a
priest. In church the family always sat in the front row. One Sunday when
the priest turned to the congregation and said "Dominus vobiscum"
(The Lord be with you), this young boy of three climbed onto the kneeler
and in his own version of Latin greeted the congregation with his hands
joined palm to palm. His mother thought he was misbehaving, but truly he was not.
After Mass when everyone was in the wagon for the return trip home, he
announced to his family that he was going to be a priest when he grew up!
Throughout his elementary and high school years, he never lost the feeling
that he wanted to be a priest.
The
Vincentians Order of Priests established a camp for boys in French Woods
in the 1920’s called Camp St. Johns. Many of the counselors who worked
there were Vincentian Seminarians. The contact Father Dirig had through
his early years with the Vincentians at the camp was one of the reasons he
chose the Vincentian Missionaries for his life’s vocation. A cousin of
his father was Father John Cloonan, C.M. (Congregation of the Missions)
who was a Vincentian priest and had spent many of his vacations in the
Dirig family home.
Father
Dirig received a scholarship to St. Joseph’s College in Princeton, NJ.
This is where the seminarians for Vincentian priests were taught. The
studies and duties in the seminary were hard and many. Despite many
classes and practice sessions he never learned to get the correct pitch
for the chants or the hymns that were required. They were not allowed to
return home during the first five years, although they did allow Father
Dirig a visit home during that time because his father had passed away.
Father
was ordained on June 3, 1939 after nine years of studies.
His first Mass was at the Monastery of the Visitation in Brooklyn,
NY on June 4, 1939. His sister was a cloistered nun there and could not
leave, so that is why his first Mass was held in this church. His first
Mass at St. Paul’s in Hancock, NY, was on June 11, 1939, with Father
Rausch as the Arch Priest,
and Father Cloonan preached the sermon.
Father Dirig's Twenty-fifth Anniversary Mass was
also celebrated at St. Paul's. Father
Edwin Dirig (a cousin) was deacon and a
classmate from Philadelphia was
sub-deacon. The Fiftieth Anniversary Mass was
celebrated at St. Paul's with Father David Testa, and the Sixtieth Anniversary
with Father Stephen Morris.
The
first assignment he received was helping out in two or three parishes, for
one or two weeks at a time. Father then got his first full time assignment
teaching philosophy, theology, and English at Niagara University for a
year. He taught seminarians in five different seminaries over the next
thirty-three years. Father Dirig also was in administration for a period
of time, but preferred teaching. Through the years his assignments took
him to Florida, Alabama, Ozone Park, NY, and numerous other places.
He was a seminary professor throughout most of his priestly life.
To
celebrate his 25th Anniversary of Ordination, he traveled the
United States from coast to coast in a motor home. His brother Edwin Dirig,
wife Patricia, and 5 of their 7 children also were along on the trip.
Father Dirig has also traveled to the Holy Land, Mexico, Italy, and France
to name a few places.
Picture
taking is something that he has enjoyed through the years along with his
writings. I noticed he was using one of those disposable cameras for his
pictures. He does a great job with it too. I remember him telling me,
“Life is your hobby.”
One
of the many questions I asked Father Dirig was even though we pray for
vocations to the priesthood at St. Paul’s, what else should we be doing?
Without any hesitation, he said: "Be more prayerful.
Encourage the altar servers as well as the laity to be more
involved. Have religious materials around the home as well as around the
church. Pray everyday to know what God wants you to be and do. Last but
not least, have contact with an enthusiastic priest and religious leaders
of the parish."
Finally,
we got down to my last question: "What’s been your greatest joy as
a priest?" Again without hesitation, he said, "The ability to
say Mass every day and being able to share my knowledge with the
seminarians."
The
Shrine of the Miraculous Medal Church is next to the infirmary where
Father Dirig lives. So with
Father leading the way in his wheel chair, we took a tour of the infirmary
and the church. The Shrine of
the Miraculous Medal is a tour all its own-very impressive and humbling.
After returning to the solarium and seeing that it was time for us to
return home, I knew it had been a long day for Father and I asked if he
was ready for a nap. "No!" was the answer, "it’s time to
pray!" So with that, we said our goodbyes and headed back north.
We
crossed the bridge back into Hancock a little more than 12 hours after we
had left. Sure we were tired, but we all felt the joys we derived from the
experiences of the day far outweighed any feelings we had of being tired.
We were thankful that the weather was perfect, traffic was not bad,
and most of all that we picked a day when Father Dirig was having what he
calls, "one of his better days."